Titles, labels and Roles
As humans, we carry, seek out, and identify through so many titles, labels, and roles throughout our lifetime(s). Our ego needs those identifiers to live a meaningful life. We are born someone’s child, and there is a gender label. This implies that one must behave in ways that align with one's gender for social acceptance. We are identified as a son or a daughter. And perhaps immediately or in the foreseeable future, brother and/or sister. We become students in a particular course of study, earning a degree and/or certification, and we are identified as qualified. Our professional life brings a title and achievements, and hard work adds more titles. All of this boosts our ego, as we grow and contribute to the well-being and betterment of not only ourselves but also others. Then we have relationship titles. We become boyfriends, girlfriends, partners, significant others, husbands, or wives. We may take on the title/role of mother or father, and based on this, the title of grandmother or grandfather. I’m certain you can think of even more that I have not mentioned, but you get the idea.
What happens when/if any of these titles, labels, and/or roles diminish, fall out of harmony, or no longer exist?
We are left empty, and an identity wobble occurs. This is the call from the Universe/God/Source/The Omnipresence for us to see ourselves beyond the roles in the matrix. This is the moment of welcoming you to Be, or you can ignore it and continue in the disconnected state.
I have played – I use the word “played” not lightly but rather with great intention. I have played many of these roles and rebuilt myself more than once. What I recognized about all the roles I have played, and the completion of some, is that I could only remain centered through breath and Self-Love, aka fully reSourced to navigate the wobbles. I also now recognize that I embodied the Qrone since before I had words to speak, and it is through life experiences (and I do have the certifications as well) that I now have the courage and the honor to let myself be externally that which I have always embodied and do the work of lifetimes as an evolution doula. It is an honor, a pleasure, and a privilege to serve all who are embarking on their inner journey.
“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, 'Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?' Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”
― Marianne Williamson, A Return to Love: Reflections on the Principles of "A Course in Miracles"
